On Purpose with Jay Shetty

4 Things That Are Not Love and 4 Ways To Know You Have Found The One

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Mar 11, 2022
Explore the complexities of love as genuine feelings are unraveled from misconceptions like validation and power. Discover how appreciation, growth, and commitment really define true connections. The conversation emphasizes the significance of aligning goals and evolving together in a relationship. Learn about the importance of shared experiences and self-reflection, while moving beyond the pressure of perfection in partners. Embrace authenticity and curiosity for richer, more meaningful relationships.
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INSIGHT

Validation is Not Love

  • Validation from others isn't love, it can be manipulative.
  • True love values you for who you are, not your achievements.
ANECDOTE

Radhi's Validation

  • Jay Shetty's wife, Radhi, validates him for his character, not his achievements.
  • Initially, he craved validation for his success, but now appreciates her deeper validation.
ADVICE

Being Liked vs. Loved

  • Being liked isn't equivalent to being loved.
  • Love requires showing your flaws and being your authentic self, not just the likable parts.
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