
The 5 AM Miracle: Healthy Productivity for High Achievers The Anxious Generation: Social Media and Parenting with Tessa Sanders [BEST OF]
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Apr 9, 2026 Tessa Sanders, parenting-minded writer and commentator on childhood development and Montessori ideas. She discusses Jonathan Haidt's The Anxious Generation, early tech exposure, and why play and face-to-face time matter. Conversations cover Montessori principles, managing parental phone habits, limits on screens, and why some parents choose tech-free schools.
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Growing Up With The Same Peer Group Through School
- Tessa recalls having continuous, stable peer groups from kindergarten through high school that provided deep social roots.
- She contrasts that with city life where kids switch schools, lose consistent peer groups, and lack ongoing neighborhood play.
Face To Face Play Builds Durable Relationships
- Real-world face-to-face experiences build deeper relationships and counter the 'digital-only' friendships of phones.
- Jeff says digital interactions lack presence and shared experiences that form durable bonds.
Promote Unstructured Mixed Age Play And Autonomy
- Encourage unstructured, mixed-age free play and cultivate autonomy rather than replacing screens with passive downtime.
- Tessa highlights Montessori principles like freedom within limits and building attention through child-led activities.



