Powerlessness Does Not Mean Helplessness over Sex Addiction w/ Carol the Coach
Jun 26, 2018
In this insightful conversation, Garry Eldridge, a certified sex addiction therapist from Lighthouse Counseling Center, shares his transformative approaches to recovery. He emphasizes that surrendering to the addiction is about creating a liberating new life rather than merely fighting for sobriety. Garry discusses the importance of the 12 Steps, trust in a higher power, and the significance of service to others. He highlights the role of genuine connections, community support, and daily practices like gratitude in achieving lasting personal growth.
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AVR Formula for Empathy
- Use AVR: Acknowledge your partner's situation, validate their feelings, and offer reassurance to rebuild trust.
- This empathy formula helps manage relationship anxiety after betrayal.
Create a Support Committee
- Find a safe person or support group like 12-step meetings to be fully honest.
- Use a committee of support because fighting addiction alone is not sustainable.
Garry's Entry to Sex Addiction Therapy
- Gary Eldridge entered sex addiction therapy after attending Patrick Carnes' workshop and becoming certified.
- He now works at Lighthouse Counseling Center with multiple offices in Louisiana.








