The School of Greatness Stop Attracting The Wrong Relationships. Do This To Find Lasting Love! | Lewis Howes
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Feb 18, 2026 
Esther Perel, psychotherapist exploring desire and intimacy. Mel Robbins, author with practical marriage tools. Matthew Hussey, dating coach on breaking harmful patterns. Jillian Turecki, relationship coach focused on attachment and choice. They discuss why people repeat painful relationship cycles. They explain nervous system regulation, play and repair, and how to choose partners who support real healing.
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Do New Things To Rekindle Desire
- Esther Perel recommends diversifying social connections and taking risks to keep desire alive.
- Do new, novel activities together to cultivate curiosity, playfulness, and erotic energy in the relationship.
Created A Game To Rekindle Play
- Esther Perel recounts creating playful group pods and a game during the pandemic to restore connection and curiosity.
- Play allowed couples to ask daring questions and escape pandemic fatigue with imagination and novelty.
Know Yourself Before Choosing Partner
- Jillian Turecki urges you to know your psychology before choosing a partner.
- Be honest about your preferences and needs so you stop selecting partners who can't match your life vision.