
That Relationship Show Everything You Wanted to Know About Sex (but were afraid to ask)
May 26, 2019
Join Dr. Barry McCarthy, a seasoned clinical psychologist and sexuality expert, as he delves into the intricacies of sexual relationships. He shares why sex should be viewed as a team sport and how desire is often more important than orgasm. Discover the importance of anticipation and unpredictability in rekindling desire, as well as his insights on sexual satisfaction in later life. Barry emphasizes owning one's sexual voice and provides practical tips on maintaining intimacy, tackling issues like erectile dysfunction, and recovering from sexual trauma.
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Show-Up Versus Grown-Up Erections
- A client said younger men had 'show-up erections' and older men have 'grown-up erections.'
- The client felt valued because her partner needed her for his mature sexual experience.
Fertility Timelines Turn Sex Into Tasks
- Fertility timetables make sex task-oriented and reduce fun during high-probability weeks.
- Reserve non-timed weeks for playful sexual connection to protect desire.
Relational Security Can De-Eroticize
- Relational 'best friend' style fosters security but can de-eroticize sexual life if not balanced.
- Sexual style requires autonomy, erotic risk, and integration of intimacy with erotic scenarios.








