The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women How to Approach a Girl: Direct Vs. Indirect When Approaching Women
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Oct 14, 2020 Exploring direct and indirect approaches when approaching women, emphasizing confidence and authenticity. Tips on storytelling, controlling conversation, and building connections. Advocating for direct and genuine approaches to make successful interactions with women.
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Use Direct Approach When You Won't See Her Again
- Do use the direct approach when you likely won't see her again by stating your attraction clearly and calmly.
- Say something like "I thought you were really cute, I wanted to come meet you, what's your name?" to set intent and control the frame.
Fly Fishing Opener That Turned Direct
- Mark used an indirect opener about fly-tying that transitioned into a direct compliment and introduction.
- He pointed at the cute girl, admitted he was lying about not knowing the section, then said he thought she was cute and she blushed.
Let Her React More To Control The Frame
- Insight: Reaction > effort — if she reacts more than you, you control the frame and gain attraction.
- Calm composure causes her to respond expressively, which shifts social pressure and authority to you.