
How to Be a Better Human How to forget about finding “The One”— and build a lasting relationship (with Dr. George Blair West)
Jun 21, 2021
George Blair West, a relationship expert and psychiatrist with over 25 years of experience, shares invaluable insights on building lasting partnerships. He debunks the myth of 'The One' and emphasizes the importance of emotional compatibility instead. Listeners learn practical steps for choosing the right partner and fostering strong connections, highlighting vulnerability, commitment, and communication. The discussion also addresses challenges of modern relationships, including technology's impact and the significance of mutual support during difficult times.
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Definition of Love
- Build love by accepting your partner's shortcomings and committing to mutual personal growth.
- Nurture growth like tending a plant: provide support without forcing change.
Early Intervention
- Address relationship challenges early on.
- Don't let fear of vulnerability prevent open communication and potential solutions.
Preventing Divorce
- Get older before marrying, as age correlates with lower divorce rates. Look for reliability in a partner – someone who has your back.
- These qualities can also be built in existing relationships.


