Relationship Advice

350: Top Sexual Communication Practices

Apr 27, 2022
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INSIGHT

Lack Of Sexual Education Creates Skill Gaps

  • Cultural history left many people without education or models for sexual communication, creating a skill gap.
  • Expecting expert-level sexual functioning without training sets couples up for frustration.
ADVICE

Start A Regular Sex Check-In

  • Try a regular 'sex check-in' outside high-pressure moments to discuss satisfaction and needs.
  • Ask permission first by saying, 'Can we talk about sex?' to prime a safer conversation.
ADVICE

Solicit Specific Pleasure Feedback

  • Ask, 'What can I do more to pleasure you?' and invite specific feedback to normalize sexual critique.
  • Use affirming language and mutual goals to soften ego threats and encourage openness.
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