You Are Heroic with Brian Johnson

Losing Is EXCITING!: When You Do It Right (Heroic +1 #1,772)

May 28, 2024
Chess grandmaster Maurice Ashley discusses embracing losses for growth and improvement, sharing insights on leveraging defeats as stepping stones for personal development. He reflects on a disappointing tournament performance, exploring factors like dietary choices, exercise, and punctuality.
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ANECDOTE

Emerson's Poor Tournament Day

  • Emerson lost to a much lower-rated kid and went 1-2-1 at a tournament, which he framed as a learning opportunity.
  • Brian and Emerson used the loss to identify concrete fixes rather than ruminating on failure.
ADVICE

Use A Three-Step Postgame Routine

  • After a bad performance, celebrate one win, identify what went wrong, and decide a specific next action to fix it.
  • Make clear, actionable commitments like arriving 30 minutes early or scheduling hourly bike loops to ensure follow-through.
INSIGHT

Losing Can Be A Catalyst

  • Maurice Ashley says how you handle losses predicts future success more than the loss itself.
  • Kobe Bryant called losing exciting because it reveals specific weaknesses to improve on if you look for the answers.
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