The Mating Grounds Podcast

Bad Advice From The Internet: "It's Just a Numbers Game"

Feb 13, 2015
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INSIGHT

High Volume Approaches Carry Costs

  • Approaching hundreds of women has real personal and social costs, especially rejection fatigue and reputational fallout.
  • These costs make spray-and-pray tactics unsustainable for people with emotions or social networks.
INSIGHT

Mindset Shapes Outcomes

  • Treating women as purely transactional for one-night sex signals the wrong mindset and repels people.
  • Thinking of interactions as human connection reduces pressure and raises success rates.
INSIGHT

Stranger Approach Is The Hardest Route

  • Approaching a random stranger is the hardest way to meet women because she unconsciously assesses physical, social, and emotional threat.
  • You must demonstrate safety in those domains before sexual interest appears.
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