Into The Wild 9. Why Your Prison Guards Will Hold You Back with Dr. Valerie Rein
Dr. Valerie Rein has discovered Patriarchy Stress Disorder (PSD) and created the only science-backed system for helping women achieve their ultimate success, happiness, and fulfillment by healing the generational trauma of oppression. She holds an EdM in Psychological Counseling from Columbia University and a PhD in Psychology from the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology. Her bestselling book, "Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Inner Barrier to Women's Happiness and Fulfillment" and her cutting-edge programs have helped thousands of women shift from survival to thriving and master the game of "How good can it get?" in their work and personal lives. Dr. Valerie is a sought-after speaker and trainer at conferences and companies committed to setting new standards of excellence in their industry in diversity, equity, and inclusion, employee satisfaction, their physical and mental health, and creativity and innovation.
In This Episode, You Will Learn About:
- Invest in things that see your bigness
- Have a lot of compassion for yourself
- "You don't become a millionaire for the million dollars. You become a millionaire for the person you become in the process."
- Not trusting that you know what to offer was one of her biggest business mistakes
- Oppression is not our fault
- Patriarchy Stress Disorder = PSD
- Traumatic experiences are genetically transmitted
- We carry traumas throughout life
- Women have been carrying trauma for thousands of years
- Everything that was every 'wrong' with women, stems from thousands of years of oppression
- We don't have role models in the world of women living authentically
- PSD does not correlate from our accomplishment
- Nothing is wrong with women, it's not about the mindset, it's much deeper
- Trauma is any experience that made you feel unsafe, that led to you building trauma adaptions to make you feel safe
- A woman's power has always been a punishable offense
- Women want to be free. It is what we desire!
- Everything in our culture reinforces PSD, instead of making it better
- Be everything that you are here to be because that gives your children permission to do it too
- Our actions are decided in our subconscious
- She calls BS on 'money mindset issues' because the reality is that it wasn't until the 80's that women could take out a loan without having a male counterpart co-sign
- The biggest unconscious privilege of men, in this culture, is being believed in
- Fear of failure keeps women in her safe cell
- What is holding us back is not personal, it's the patriarchy
- 75-90% of autoimmune cases are in women
Public shoutouts:
- Marianne Williamson: A Woman's Worth
- Meryl Streep on Instagram
Resources:
- Website: https://www.drvalerie.com/
- Book: Patriarchy Stress Disorder
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drvalerierein/
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drvalerierein
Being a wild woman means:
"The woman who disobeys. She was burned at the stake throughout history. We are the women who disobey the establishment. We don't settle for the crumbs that the Patriarchy settles or us. " ~ Dr. Valerie Rein
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Renée Warren is an award-winning entrepreneur, a 7-figure business starter, and the founder of We Wild Women, a business dedicated to helping women launch their dream business. She previously founded an industry-recognized PR agency that worked with funded technology startups from South Africa to San Diego.
She's a mom to Irish Twins (not planned), a published author, and a drummer.
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