Meditative Story

What my father gave me, by Shawn Colvin

Jul 22, 2020
Shawn Colvin, a Grammy-winning singer-songwriter, shares a first-person story about childhood, forgiveness, and how music shaped her. She recounts a tense upbringing, the surprising phone call that led to an honest conversation, and the hands-on bond with her father in the garage. The narrative explores compassion, apology, and the tools music gave her to build a life.
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ANECDOTE

Childhood Split Between Fear And The Garage

  • Shawn Colvin describes a childhood in Vermillion, South Dakota marked by a hair-trigger father who disciplined her harshly and a home that felt dangerous.
  • She contrasts that with long summer days in her father's garage where he built furniture, cars, and a bond formed through making things together.
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Music And Church As Emotional Refuge

  • Music became Shawn's refuge after age ten when her father taught her guitar and she fell in love with the instrument, practicing obsessively in her room.
  • Church and Ruth's household provided communal musical joy and the sense of belonging Shawn lacked at home.
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A Morning Call That Changed Everything

  • At 15 Shawn endures a final physical punishment and later waits nervously for an 8 a.m. call from her father to finally answer his question about her childhood.
  • During that call he says, I know it and I'm sorry, which surprises her and leads her to forgive him on the spot.
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