The Hard Or Soft Show 316. The Year of Yes Feat Kandi Burruss
Jan 15, 2026
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In this special crossover episode of Business of Pleasure x The Hard or Soft Show, Tahoe is joined by Kasha Vanessa and the incomparable Kandi Burruss for a real, funny, and affirming conversation about transitioning from marital life into single womanhood, reclaiming self-love, and using pleasure as both confidence and care. We get into setting intentions for the year ahead and saying yes to ourselves, our pleasure, and our evolution.
Kandi opens up about the whether she is ready or thinking about dating in today’s wild outside world, we talk people trying to spin the block, and the importance of true alignment in relationships, friendships, and energy as she steps into this next season with intention.
We get into all the fun, toys that get you through transitions, riding it right, confidence in your body, and how pleasure plays a role in healing and empowerment. The conversation expands into the Hard or Soft framework, sharing our Hard/Wet, what turns us on, and our Soft/Dry, what turns us off, along with an honest discussion about ethical non-monogamy versus polyamory. This episode is grown, candid, and exactly the reminder you need to step boldly into your Year of YES. ENJOY!!!
Also tune into Tahoe and Kashas new show Unconsciously Competent on all streaming episodes NOW!! or just click here
To Go to the Play Party head to HardOrSoftEvents if youve been vetted already or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com to fill out the vetting form
Socials
Kandi
@Kandi on Instagram
Kasha
@Au_Natural38 on Instagram and Twitter
Shop Bedroom Kandi products at @BedroomKandi on Instagram or click the link in the bio
Tune into the @BusinessOfPleasure podcast weekly on Youtube!
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
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Visit LoadBoost.com or click here and put in code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all LoadBoost products
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow
In this special crossover episode of Business of Pleasure x The Hard or Soft Show, Tahoe is joined by Kasha Vanessa and the incomparable Kandi Burruss for a real, funny, and affirming conversation about transitioning from marital life into single womanhood, reclaiming self-love, and using pleasure as both confidence and care. We get into setting intentions for the year ahead and saying yes to ourselves, our pleasure, and our evolution.
Kandi opens up about the whether she is ready or thinking about dating in today’s wild outside world, we talk people trying to spin the block, and the importance of true alignment in relationships, friendships, and energy as she steps into this next season with intention.
We get into all the fun, toys that get you through transitions, riding it right, confidence in your body, and how pleasure plays a role in healing and empowerment. The conversation expands into the Hard or Soft framework, sharing our Hard/Wet, what turns us on, and our Soft/Dry, what turns us off, along with an honest discussion about ethical non-monogamy versus polyamory. This episode is grown, candid, and exactly the reminder you need to step boldly into your Year of YES. ENJOY!!!
Also tune into Tahoe and Kashas new show Unconsciously Competent on all streaming episodes NOW!! or just click here
To Go to the Play Party head to HardOrSoftEvents if youve been vetted already or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com to fill out the vetting form
Socials
Kandi
@Kandi on Instagram
Kasha
@Au_Natural38 on Instagram and Twitter
Shop Bedroom Kandi products at @BedroomKandi on Instagram or click the link in the bio
Tune into the @BusinessOfPleasure podcast weekly on Youtube!
Tahoe
@Tahoe_TV Twitter and Instagram
Visit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad free
Visit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.
Ads:
LoadBoost
Visit LoadBoost.com or click here and put in code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all LoadBoost products
GetTheButters
Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOW
Visit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
Erotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)
Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshow
Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow
Twitter @HardOrSoftShow