PsycHacks Episode 601: A useful eight (my ideal woman)
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Mar 2, 2026 A concise framework for selecting an ideal partner based on a balance of attractiveness and practical value. Discussion of why a specific attractiveness level sustains desire without high maintenance. Exploration of how adding usefulness secures commitment and reduces relationship drain. Brief mention of an economic model comparing sexual selection to professional value.
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Useful Eight Explains Attraction Threshold
- Orion Taraban defines his ideal woman as a "useful eight," combining attractiveness and practicality as a single standard.
- He explains PSMV 8 keeps consistent sexual interest without the impractical maintenance of higher-rated partners.
Prioritize Attraction In Sexual Relationships
- Do prioritize sexual attraction in sexual relationships because sex is central to those relationships' purpose.
- Taraban's rule: you should usually feel lucky to be leaving with the woman you brought to maintain relationship stability.
High PSMV Partners Have Hidden Maintenance Costs
- Women much higher than an 8 often bring relentless intrasexual competition and high-maintenance costs that reduce relationship enjoyment.
- Taraban compares very high-PSMV partners to exotic supercars: stunning but impractical and expensive to maintain.
