The Catholic Gentleman The Father Who Ran: When A Child Refuses
Mar 19, 2026
A candid look at why a child’s rebellion wounds a father’s sense of worth. They use the Prodigal Son to explore pride, presence, and provision. Practical first moves are discussed, like humility, asking forgiveness, and rebuilding trust through listening. The conversation focuses on mercy, separating hurt from harm, and crafting a long-term vision to restore relationship.
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Devin's Grueling Canada Tour And Spiritual Fruit
- Devin recounts touring and presenting intensively in Canada with minimal sleep.
- He describes 400 men engaged at a conference and praises their generosity and faith under cultural pressure.
When Provision Becomes Identity
- Fathers often become 'providers only' when work validation replaces home affirmation.
- Devin explains men chase external success because home knows their flaws, so work becomes the place for praise and identity.
Stop Clamping Down Cut Off Or Checking Out
- Avoid defaulting to clamp down, cut off, or check out when a child rebels.
- John names the three reactions and urges recognizing them so you can choose a different, healing approach.
