
Become New with John Ortberg 45. Why We Do Things We Regret
Mar 30, 2026
A reflection on how pressure reveals true character and why small, unexpected moments matter. Conversations about kingdom values that flip common ideas of greatness. A close look at the cross as a test of surrender, forgiveness, and trust. Honest admissions about personal failure and a call to grow without condemning others.
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Kingdom Values Reverse Worldly Status
- Jesus consistently elevates the lowly, teaching that greatness comes from service and losing your life to gain it.
- John Ortberg links Micah 5 and Jesus' sayings to show the kingdom flips worldly prestige into humble strength.
Pressure Reveals True Character
- Character is revealed under pressure when choices expose who we truly are.
- Ortberg cites Robert McKee: truth under risk tells you more than truth when there's nothing to lose.
Toothpaste Tube Shows What Pressure Releases
- Ortberg uses a toothpaste tube to illustrate that under pressure what’s inside comes out.
- The physical image links to Dallas Willard's idea that actions flow from the heart's stored contents.



