The Mindset Mentor Why Change is Hard
May 28, 2021
Ever felt torn between who you want to be and who you’ve always been? This discussion delves into the psychological battles we face when pursuing change. It highlights the importance of rediscovering your authentic self and the challenges of societal expectations. Personal anecdotes illustrate the journey from a conditioned self to true identity. Strategies for cultivating self-compassion and overcoming negative thoughts are shared, which serve as essential tools for continuous personal growth and mental wellness.
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Two Sides
- We have two sides fighting within us: the true self and the conditioned self.
- This internal conflict resembles an angel (true self) and a devil (conditioned self) on our shoulders.
True vs. Conditioned Self
- The true self is who you were before the world told you who you should be.
- The conditioned self develops as a result of hurts, traumas, and societal pressures.
Aggressive Dog Analogy
- No dog is born aggressive; aggressiveness is a learned defense mechanism.
- Similarly, our conditioned self develops protective layers due to life experiences.