The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast

CNLP 721 | When Couples Fight About Everything: Gabe and Rebekah Lyons Open Up About Marriage, Sex, and Honest Advice for Two Career Couples

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Apr 8, 2025
Gabe and Rebekah Lyons share their wisdom from 28 years of marriage, discussing how to navigate life's challenges while balancing two careers. They candidly address the complexities of intimacy, emphasizing open communication and vulnerability. The couple explores the importance of setting boundaries between work and personal life, as well as seeking wise mentorship instead of relying on social media advice. Their honest dialogue offers practical insights for couples looking to strengthen their relationship amidst the chaos of modern life.
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ADVICE

Fluid Roles

  • Avoid rigid role divisions in marriage and be flexible with household duties.
  • Share responsibilities based on individual strengths and availability.
INSIGHT

Writing About Marriage

  • Writing a book on marriage, after hosting couples' retreats for 20 years, felt daunting for Gabe and Rebekah.
  • Sharing their story of fighting for their relationship became a way to empower others.
ANECDOTE

Fighting About Everything

  • Gabe and Rebekah fight about everything from dishes and cooking to parenting and finances.
  • They even argue about how frequently they should have sex.
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