KQED's Forum Looking for a Valentine? You May Need Better Dating Skills
Feb 13, 2026
Daniel Yi, co-host of I Hate Dating Apps, brings commentary on app culture. Myesha Battle, sex and dating coach and podcaster, offers practical dating coaching. They dig into why flirting and small talk feel lost. They discuss how apps reward engagement over connection. Conversation covers safety, regional dating norms, and simple ways to improve first-date follow-ups.
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Apps Encourage Performance Over Authenticity
- Daniel Yi says dating apps turn dating into a performative popularity contest influenced by social media dynamics.
- He warns that apps reward attention metrics, not necessarily meaningful partner-matching.
Craigslist Led To 20 Years Of Love
- Mary Ann put a Craigslist ad after a divorce and met a man who pursued her; they had 20 happy years together until he died of ALS.
- She credits straightforward outreach and a simple lunch for a lasting connection.
Tinder Lunch Turned Into Marriage
- Doug and his now-wife met on Tinder after both left failed relationships, had a six-hour lunch, and married a year later.
- He credits using the app as a tool and being authentic on the date for their success.
