Parenting in the Modern Age | Interview: Emily Oster

In 'Just Babies', Paul Bloom challenges the traditional view that humans are born as blank moral slates. He argues that humans are innately equipped with a sense of morality, citing groundbreaking research at Yale that demonstrates babies as young as a few months old can judge the goodness and badness of others' actions, feel empathy and compassion, and exhibit a rudimentary sense of justice. Bloom explores how this innate morality is limited by natural hostility to strangers, parochialism, and bigotry, and how reason, imagination, and compassion enable us to transcend these primitive moral instincts. The book delves into various aspects of morality, including the morality of chimpanzees, psychopaths, religious extremists, and Ivy League professors, and discusses moral feelings about sex, politics, religion, and race.

In 'The Family Firm', Emily Oster uses her background as an economist and business school professor to provide a framework for parents to make informed decisions about their children's education, health, extracurricular activities, and independence. The book introduces the 'Family Firm Toolbox', which includes the 'Four F's': Framing the Question, Fact-Finding, Final Decision, and Follow-Up. Oster emphasizes the importance of a systematic approach to family decision-making, drawing parallels between managing a business and managing a family. The book covers various topics such as choosing the right school, encouraging a healthy diet, and navigating day-to-day family logistics, all with a focus on reducing stress and making better decisions.

In *Expecting Better*, Emily Oster, an award-winning economist, evaluates the data behind conventional pregnancy rules and discovers that many are misguided or flat-out wrong. The book explains everything from the real effects of caffeine and alcohol to the surprising dangers of gardening, aiming to empower pregnant women to make their own informed decisions and enjoy a healthy and relaxed pregnancy. It is organized into sections covering conception, each trimester, and labor and delivery, making it accessible and practical for pregnant women.