The Simplicity Parenting Podcast with Kim John Payne #31: The Four Loves, Thirdly is Charitas and Giving (Simplicity Diary Encore Episode)
Feb 19, 2019
Explore the concept of karitas, where charity becomes the highest form of love through selfless giving. Delve into a poignant story of a mother's test of commitment around sacrifice. Discover how delaying intimacy can actually strengthen relationships and build mutual respect. Kim offers vital guidance for parents, encouraging them to support their teens’ relationship goals without moralizing. The critical question of reciprocal giving highlights the importance of selflessness in love, creating deeper connections.
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Charity As Highest Form Of Love
- Charity (karitas) is giving freely without expecting anything in return and signals deep emotional connection.
- Kim John Payne highlights charity as the highest form of love, echoing Paul on hope, faith, and charity.
Mother's Question That Changed A Teen Couple
- Maria asked her son if he'd give his most valued possession to his girlfriend and expect nothing back to test his readiness for sex.
- Scott and Kara delayed sex until after high school and deepened their relationship, which pleased Maria.
Delay Builds Relationship Foundation
- Delaying sex allows a relationship to develop a broader base of mutual respect and a stronger foundation.
- Kim John Payne links delayed intimacy to greater likelihood that the relationship will last.