Mental Illness Happy Hour #788 Discovering Sexuality & Processing Trauma - "Marilyn"
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Feb 20, 2026 A candid conversation about discovering sexuality later in life and the role trauma work played in unlocking self-awareness. They explore love addiction, obsessive relationship patterns, and the sobering rules Marilyn uses to stay sober in intimacy. Childhood shame, family dynamics, and healing through routine caregiving and steady partnership also shape the story.
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From Meeting To Podcast Guest
- Marilyn met Paul at a support group and quickly connected over shared recovery experiences.
- She agreed to appear on the podcast after Paul suggested her story would help others.
One Item Can Trigger Recovery
- Discovering the 40 questions didn't fit, but the romantic obsession item matched Marilyn perfectly.
- That single recognition propelled her into meetings and sponsorship quickly.
Trauma Work Revealed Sexual Identity
- Trauma therapy (EMDR) surfaced childhood memories Marilyn had boxed away, and a vivid sexual dream signaled reconnection to her sexuality.
- Clearing that trauma led to realizing she was gay in her mid-30s.
