Become New with John Ortberg 2. Try Softer
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May 11, 2021 A short, counterintuitive lesson about easing effort and the surprising power of relaxing control. Stories show how painting, sports, music, and dating often improve when we try softer. Reflections on will, grace, and Jesus' invitation to rest frame practical steps for faith, relationships, work, and daily rhythm. Simple, relatable prompts to loosen grip and let life unfold.
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Try Softer Changed My Ministry
- John Ortberg recounts an early ministry season when relentless effort left him exhausted and ineffective.
- A longtime church member quietly advised him to 'Try softer,' which shifted his approach from strain to steadiness.
Disordered Will Versus Real Control
- Leslie Farber's idea of a 'disordered will' distinguishes between things we can will directly and outcomes we cannot control.
- Examples: you can will going to bed but not sleep, will eating but not hunger, will religiosity but not faith.
Come To Jesus For An Easy Yoke
- Jesus invites the exhausted to exchange burdens for his yoke that gives rest rather than a vacation or escape.
- Matthew 11:28-30 frames the solution as coming to Jesus and learning from his gentle, humble way.