Become New with John Ortberg

26. The Benefits of Guilt and Shame

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Mar 3, 2026
A thoughtful look at why guilt and shame can serve protective and restorative roles. Stories from Judges highlight moral consequence and the reality of justice. The discussion traces how ancient faith linked one good God to objective moral truth. It contrasts destructive shamelessness with healthy guilt that leads to confession and restored relationship.
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ANECDOTE

Adoni-Bezek Learns Justice Arrives

  • John Ortberg tells the story of Adoni-Bezek, a king who mutilated 70 others by cutting off thumbs and big toes and feeding them scraps under his table.
  • When captured, Adoni-Bezek acknowledges justice: As I have done, so God has repaid me, showing someone was watching and accountability arrived.
INSIGHT

Ethical Monotheism Makes Moral Order Real

  • Ortberg highlights ethical monotheism: Israel uniquely connected 'there is one God' with 'that God is good,' making moral order intrinsic to reality.
  • This connection meant good and bad weren't mere preferences but rooted in a just, watching God who judges.
INSIGHT

Nothing Hidden Will Be Revealed

  • Ortberg calls attention to Jesus' claim in Luke 8:17 that nothing hidden will remain hidden, offering hope that all injustice will ultimately be revealed.
  • He uses this to comfort victims and to remind listeners that accountability transcends present appearances.
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