The Deep End With Lecrae

Ex Gay and Trans Couple Get Vulnerable With Lecrae

Oct 10, 2024
Nick Renick, a former same-sex attracted man turned husband and ministry co-founder. Lex Renick, who detransitioned and now embraces her biological female identity while co-leading their traveling ministry. They discuss childhood trauma, discovering and later rejecting trans identity, their surprising meeting and marriage, a dramatic deliverance moment, and their calling to minister to marginalized people.
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INSIGHT

Identity Can Become An Idol

  • Lex realized the 'God made me this way' argument didn't resolve her conflict about gender identity.
  • She concluded identity had become an idol that needed surrender, not merely a label to defend.
ANECDOTE

A Prayer Followed By A Chance Meeting

  • Lex prayed to surrender her sexuality to God and soon met Nick at a coffee shop.
  • She felt immediate attraction and described that meeting as the start of everything.
INSIGHT

Masculinity As A Protective Coping Role

  • After detransitioning Lex felt able to lay down the protective 'man' identity that arose from trauma.
  • She recognized the masculine persona had been a coping mechanism rather than true healing.
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