Big Ideas Childless on purpose — the fertility crisis and the big decision
Dec 18, 2025
Dr. Liz Allen, a demographer at ANU, Laura Henshaw, CEO of wellness platform Kik, and journalist Gina Rushton delve into the complex decision of parenthood. They discuss how societal pressures and economic factors influence fertility choices. Laura shares her personal journey wrestling with motherhood doubts shaped by social norms. Liz reveals insights on declining fertility rates, barriers women face in the workplace, and the impact of gender inequality on reproductive decisions. Together, they explore rethinking family structures and the importance of inclusive healthcare.
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Confronting The Assumed Path To Motherhood
- Laura Henshaw shares how approaching 30 made her question the assumed path to motherhood and feel shame for not wanting kids.
- She started a public conversation that revealed many women silently wrestle with the same doubt.
Motherhood Changed Life Direction At 17
- Liz Allen recounts having her first child at 17 and not feeling immediate maternal instinct.
- Raising children gave her belonging and motivation to rebuild her life.
Crisis Anxiety Shapes Reproductive Choices
- Gina Rushton says climate, economic instability and personal history make the decision to have kids fraught for millennials.
- These external anxieties shape whether people feel they can responsibly bring children into the future.