The Hidden Third Father vs. Child Predators | The Hidden Third with Mariana van Zeller
Dec 10, 2025
Todd Thomas, a former cannabis grower and founder of the Fathership Program, shares his harrowing journey as a father whose daughter was groomed by an online predator. He discusses the shocking moment he discovered her messages and the predator's tactics, including using a burner phone. Todd dives deep into his own experiences of childhood abuse, highlighting the importance of speaking out. Now, he empowers fathers through programs focused on parenting and anger management, aiming to change lives by turning personal pain into purpose.
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Predator Sentenced To Probation, Not Prison
- The predator's prosecution took a year; when sentenced he received three years probation.
- Todd felt the sentence was inadequate compared to his own past prison time for cannabis.
Run Decoys With A Three-Person Team
- When organizing stings, include at least three people: decoy, cameraman, and on-site witness to document events.
- Keep confrontations peaceful and avoid live streaming to reduce liability and spectacle.
Vigilante Baiting Can Become Dangerous Spectacle
- Mariana warns mass-produced vigilante stings can turn into spectacle and violence and often prioritize clicks over safety.
- Public shaming risks lives and undermines trained law enforcement processes.