The BEMA Podcast

469: Vice & Virtue — Lust

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Sep 18, 2025
Reed Dent, a thoughtful voice on spirituality, joins Marty Solomon and Brent Billings to explore the vice of lust. They delve into Augustine's insights on disordered desires and use a 'Game Genie' analogy to highlight the hollowness of instant gratification. Discussing Aquinas, they examine how lust distorts intimacy and genuine connection. The conversation critiques how church culture complicates sexuality, emphasizing the importance of seeing people's full humanity rather than objectifying them. Practical tips are offered for overcoming habitual lust, focusing on community and self-examination.
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Game Genie As An Analogy For Lust

  • Reed and Marty recall Game Genie and cheat codes as childhood examples of instant gratification.
  • They note cheats make games exciting briefly but quickly boring and hollow.
INSIGHT

Cheating Pleasure Empties The Experience

  • Chasing instant pleasure (the "Game Genie" cheat) makes experiences empty and unfulfilling.
  • Reed compares cheats to short-lived thrills that hollow out real satisfaction over time.
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Lust Erodes Will And Relates To Resentment

  • As lust deepens it produces self-love and the objectification of others, eroding moral will.
  • Aquinas framed this progression toward resentment of restraint and even a "hatred of God."
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