Fashion Neurosis with Bella Freud Richard E. Grant
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Feb 25, 2026 Richard E. Grant, actor, director and writer known for Withnail & I and Can You Ever Forgive Me? — now author reflecting on grief. He shares vivid childhood memories, brushes with family violence, and how language and costume shaped his career. They talk about addiction, therapy, caregiving rituals during illness, his enduring Barbra Streisand crush, and unexpected turns into the fashion world.
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Anthony Hopkins Called Him A Dry Drunk
- Anthony Hopkins told Grant he had the personality of an addict despite being physically allergic to alcohol, calling him a "dry drunk."
- This observation later matched Grant's psychoanalysis finding that he seeks drama and is "addicted to drama."
Nail Painting Became Intimate Care
- Grant painted his wife Joan's nails during her illness because it was intimate, boosted her self-esteem and bypassed distressing facial changes from steroids.
- He describes the ritual as a "home spa" that made a small act have a disproportionately large positive effect.
Radical Weight Swings Without Support
- To slim for Withnail & I Grant first bulked up to 12 stone for employment, then used weight-loss powders and milkshakes to drop a stone and a half in 10 days when asked to lose weight.
- He confirms there was no psychological support during these drastic changes in the 1980s.
