everybody has a secret sooo, my fiancé told the wedding group chat I cheated
Apr 2, 2026
Louis Hanson, comedian and performer promoting his one-man show Good Boy. He returns to riff on wedding chaos. Two weddings implode: one when a groom realises he’s queer, another after a massive group chat exposes an affair. The conversation swings between accountability, empathy, and the messy fallout of public humiliation.
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Fiancée Called Off Wedding After Partner Came Out And Cheated
- Isabel almost married Ed who booked a solo trip six months before their wedding and later called it off saying he was gay and had been cheating.
- She was forced to move home, lost thousands on cancelled plans, and later found love and stability with a new partner and house.
Sexuality Struggles Don’t Excuse Cheating
- Hosts argue that struggling with sexuality doesn't excuse mistreatment such as cheating or avoidance in a relationship.
- They stress societal heteronormativity can push people to stay in straight relationships but that honesty or leaving would have spared harm.
Tell Your Partner Before You Explore Elsewhere
- If someone questions their sexuality, communicate it to your partner instead of cheating or exploring while partnered.
- The hosts recommend leaving first or negotiating openly to avoid inflicting pain and shame.