Coaches Rising 270 - Emma Donaldson-Feilder & Liz Hall: Relational Mindfulness
Jan 8, 2026
In this conversation, Emma Donaldson-Feilder, a chartered coaching psychologist, and Liz Hall, a leadership coach and author, delve into the concept of relational mindfulness. They discuss the importance of mindful speaking and listening, and how it fosters genuine connections in complex times. Emma emphasizes the magical aspects of mutual presence, while Liz connects relational mindfulness to navigating chaos. They also explore the significance of coaches’ inner work and highlight the power of compassionate engagement over automated processes.
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Learn In Safe, Structured Spaces
- Train with structured guidelines (open attitude, compassion, contemplation questions) and practice in safe groups.
- Emma recommends expanding practice from pairs to whole groups to build the skill across contexts.
Human Presence Outpaces AI In Depth
- Human coaches offer embodied empathy, calibrated challenge, and non-sycophantic clarity where AI may fail.
- Emma Donaldson-Feilder says human presence allows offering challenge with empathy and goodwill.
Relational Multiplier Effect
- Mindfulness and relationship are bi-directional: presence supports relationship and relationship supports awareness.
- Emma names the 'relational multiplier' where awareness and relating amplify each other.
