Shameless Sex

#448 Bottoms Up: Exploring Anal Play, Training, and Fisting

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Aug 26, 2025
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Jamie Joy
In this discussion, Jamie Joy, a queer, trans, Jewish certified sex educator with over a decade of experience, breaks down the often-taboo topic of anal play. They address common fears like poop and offer practical tips for beginners, including anal plug training and techniques for smooth insertion. Jamie shares their favorite toys and introduces the art of anal fisting, all while emphasizing consent and pleasure. With humor and expertise, they inspire listeners to explore anal experiences with confidence and curiosity.
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ADVICE

Train With Plugs, Not Just Motion

  • Use plugs to get comfortable with the sensation of 'being in' rather than constant in-and-out movement.
  • Wear ergonomic plugs with a thin neck and flexible stem for longer training and comfort.
INSIGHT

Butt Training Is Fitness For Hidden Muscles

  • Anal training exercises the sphincter muscles and benefits long-term sexual and pelvic health.
  • Treat internal muscle training like other fitness routines for longevity and control.
ADVICE

Plan For Poop, Don't Panic

  • Talk about poop expectations before anal and agree what to do if poop happens (stop, pause/clean, or continue).
  • Accept small traces are common and prepare towels or cleanup plans rather than panic.
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