The Russell Moore Show Jefferson Fisher on How to Have Difficult Conversations
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Jul 16, 2025 
Jefferson Fisher, an attorney and conversation expert with a massive online following, shares invaluable techniques for handling tough discussions. He emphasizes the importance of approaching conversations with curiosity and empathy. Fisher discusses strategies for setting boundaries and creating safe spaces, particularly in parenting and relationships. He also highlights the parallels between effective dialogue and the teachings of Jesus. Prepare to explore how emotional intelligence and mindful communication can transform your toughest talks.
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Set Boundaries Like Manuals
- Set clear boundaries by naming unacceptable behaviors and their consequences.
- Communicate boundaries calmly as a manual for others on how to interact with you.
Assertive Conversation Endings
- Assertively end conversations if needed by stating you are ending it, rather than hanging up abruptly.
- Postpone conversations to allow both parties time to regulate emotions.
Defuse Sarcastic Barbs
- When insulted publicly, ask the person to repeat their comment to expose their intent.
- Follow up with a question about their motive to defuse the situation and avoid escalating.
