
TED Health How to make anxiety your friend | David H. Rosmarin
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Jul 15, 2025 David H. Rosmarin, a clinical psychologist, encourages us to rethink our relationship with anxiety, advocating for its positive role in our lives. He shares four transformative steps to turn anxiety from an enemy into a friend: identifying, sharing, embracing, and letting go. By highlighting personal stories and the importance of vulnerability, he illustrates how anxiety can foster resilience and deepen connections. Listeners are inspired to embrace their anxious feelings and use them as a source of strength and personal growth.
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Anxiety Can Forge Strength
- Rosmarin argues eradicating all anxiety would not be beneficial.
- He frames many intense anxious experiences as catalysts for growth and achievement.
Reframing Anxiety As Useful Information
- Anxiety is an emotion that can increase resilience, strengthen relationships, and help with letting go.
- Rosmarin reframes anxiety as useful information rather than just a problem to eliminate.
Vulnerability Builds Intimacy
- Deep human connection requires vulnerability, which anxiety can prompt.
- Sharing anxious feelings often creates intimacy with others.

