The Mating Grounds Podcast

How Do I Talk To Girls At The Gym?

Dec 19, 2014
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INSIGHT

Women Often Feel Unattractive At The Gym

  • Most women feel unattractive at the gym because they're sweaty, without makeup, and in baggy clothes.
  • Approaching a woman who feels unattractive is unlikely to succeed and often backfires.
INSIGHT

Quantity Approaches Are Risky; Groups Reduce Risk

  • Blindly approaching many women at the gym can work but it's socially risky and shameful for most men.
  • Becoming part of a shared class reduces creepiness and increases natural interaction frequency.
ADVICE

Join Group Classes To Meet Women

  • Join group classes (spin, yoga, CrossFit, boot camps) so women view you as part of the group and you can talk before or after class.
  • Use shared activities to create natural opportunities to interact repeatedly.
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