On Purpose with Jay Shetty Jillian Turecki: 3 Biggest Dating Mistakes You’re Making (Stop Chasing Love That’s Not For You)
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Feb 24, 2025 
Join relationship coach Jillian Turecki, a seasoned expert in romantic dynamics, as she uncovers the biggest mistakes in dating. She reveals the pitfalls of over-relying on dating apps and explores the fear of rejection's impact on attraction. Jillian discusses why we often chase the wrong people while ignoring those who genuinely care. Dive into the importance of self-worth, how to repair trust after dishonesty, and practical self-reflection exercises to foster healthier relationships. This conversation is a roadmap to break unhealthy cycles in love.
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Maturing Desires
- Many in their 30s and 40s chase the desires of their 16-year-old selves, seeking pleasure over peace.
- As we mature, our relationship needs evolve from excitement to comfort and connection.
Honesty vs. Oversharing
- Be honest about needs and wants early on, but avoid oversharing personal traumas.
- In relationships, prioritize the relationship's well-being above individual needs.
Repairing Trust
- Repair trust by communicating openly and honestly, perhaps with a third party.
- Recognize withheld truths may come from fear, not a personal attack.
