Girls Gone Deep 165: So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex… Did You Actually Want It? feat. She Comes First author Ian Kerner
This week Elle and Vee chat with Ian Kerner, a licensed psychotherapist and bestselling author of She Comes First who helps individuals and couples build deeper desire, connection, and sexual confidence. Together, they unpack how everything from your early sexual experiences to the “sex scripts” you’ve internalized may be quietly shaping your turn-ons, your relationships, and your struggles with desire, ED, and communication. From de-centering intercourse and exploring coreplay to navigating fantasies, non-monogamy, and the psychological runway of arousal, this episode is a raw, eye-opening look at what it really takes to create a sex life that actually feels good.
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