The Charlene Gisele Show Leadership Etiquette: How Modern Manners Shape Executive Presence
What does modern etiquette really mean in today’s high-pressure professional world? In this conversation, Alison shares how etiquette goes far beyond table manners and becomes a powerful tool for leadership, executive presence, networking, communication, and self-respect.
We explore how to stay composed under pressure, recover after losing your temper, navigate swearing in professional settings, and exit conversations gracefully at networking events. Alison also shares thoughtful advice on appearance, grooming, makeup, professionalism, and how to show up as your most polished and authentic self.
From big law to the White House, this episode is full of practical insights for ambitious professionals who want to lead with confidence, kindness, and composure.
Timestamps
00:00 Why etiquette matters for leadership
01:29 What modern etiquette really means
02:03 Work etiquette and executive presence
04:01 Anger, composure, and leadership under pressure
08:20 Is swearing always bad etiquette?
13:56 Networking etiquette, cocktails, and canapés
22:47 How to politely exit a conversation
28:32 How to join a group when you’re alone at an event
30:18 Female leadership, femininity, and authenticity
45:33 Lessons from briefing the president and traveling on Air Force One
What We Cover
The modern definition of etiquette
Executive presence and workplace perception
Leadership through composure, kindness, and respect
How to recover after losing your temper at work
Swearing and professionalism in office culture
Networking etiquette and how to mingle confidently
Graceful ways to exit or enter conversations
Etiquette around makeup, grooming, and personal style
Authenticity for women in high-powered careers
Lessons on calm, honesty, and perspective from high-stakes environments
Key Takeaways
Etiquette is less about perfection and more about kindness, integrity, and respect.
Executive presence is shaped by how you carry yourself, communicate, and treat others.
Composure under pressure is a leadership advantage at every level of an organization.
Owning mistakes clearly and sincerely can strengthen trust and reputation.
Swearing may be common, but restraint often elevates how others perceive you.
Strong networking is built on presence, clarity, and genuine attention.
Authenticity matters more than performing a version of success that is not yours.
Most situations feel urgent, but very few are true emergencies. Perspective changes everything.
Guest Resources
Alison’s Book about Career: https://elevateetiquette.com/bookAlison’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elevateetiquette/?hl=enAlison’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alison-m-cheperdak-b0215141Alison’s Website: https://elevateetiquette.com/about
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