Psychology In Seattle Podcast 7 Tips for Long Distance Relationships (2020 Rerun)
Feb 12, 2026
Research on long-distance relationships, including how satisfaction can match nearby couples but durations often differ. Why some separated partners report greater closeness and less fighting. Practical hurdles like loneliness, time zones, and visit frequency. Seven concrete tips covering planning visits, communication rules, reassurance about fidelity, shared activities, and maintaining outside supports.
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Reality Hits When Couples Move In
- Kirk references 90 Day Fiancé examples where couples meet online and fight once living together.
- Those shows illustrate how distance can mask incompatibilities until cohabitation exposes them.
Schedule Regular High-Quality Visits
- Try to see each other at least once per month and prioritize high-quality time together.
- Short, rich visits rejuvenate the relationship, build memories, anticipation, and trust.
Interviews Show Visits Rejuvenate Bonds
- Saul Steen's interviews found that occasional face-to-face meetings rejuvenate relationships and build trust.
- In-person activities create memories and anticipation that remote contact can't fully replicate.