End-of-Life University Ep. 536 Never Can Say Goodbye: The Life of a Death Doula with Darnell Lamont Walker
Learn about a powerful memoir from the life of a death doula who was inspired by his grandmother to sit with the dying.
My guest Darnell Lamont Walker is a death doula, Emmy-nominated children’s television writer, producer and explorer. He creates spaces worldwide for healing through storytelling, end-of-life care, and workshops on grief, resilience, unlocking the writer within, and radical empathy. He is the author of the newly published memoir Never Can Say Goodbye: The Life of a Death Doula and The Art of a Peaceful End published by HarperCollins. Learn more at his website:
This episode includes:
- How Darnell was first introduced to end-of-life care by his grandmother
- The power of storytelling
- Why caring for the dying seems foreign to some people but is actually an innate ability
- Why we should be training children at a young age to be present with dying or we may pass on our own fear of death
- Death within the Black community and the impact of systemic racism, generational trauma, and unequal access to healthcare on end-of-life decision-making
- Why listening first is the best way to build trust and get people to talk about difficult subjects
- Why we can make better choices for life when we become aware of our mortality
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