
The 7 Post Reports: He's dying of cancer. They chose to start their family.
Jun 19, 2025
Drea Cornejo, a video journalist at The Washington Post, shares her personal battle with stage four lung cancer, which spurred her to document the realities faced by younger cancer patients. Tanner Martin, diagnosed with stage four colorectal cancer, and his wife Shay discuss their decision to start a family while dealing with terminal illness. They explore the emotional complexities of parenthood, the challenges of navigating medical options, and the bittersweet moments of joy and heartache throughout their journey.
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Drea's Cancer Diagnosis
- Drea Cornejo was diagnosed with stage four lung cancer at 26 and initially given a three-month prognosis.
- Her diagnosis inspired her to report on young adults with cancer and make their experiences visible.
Finding Tanner and Shay on TikTok
- Drea found Tanner and Shay on TikTok, where they spoke candidly about cancer and planning for death amidst hope.
- Their candidness inspired Drea as she related deeply to their openness about living with cancer.
Family Planning Amid Cancer
- Tanner and Shay decided to bank his sperm and later pursue IVF after his health stabilized.
- They thoughtfully planned for their daughter, weighing cancer risks and family support before proceeding.
