Become New with John Ortberg

Episode 18 - How to Tie a Tie

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Mar 16, 2021
A practical take on how small repeated actions shape who we become. Conversations about surrendering broken patterns and letting a spiritual path rewire habits. Reflections on why character matters more than willpower and how everyday practices can become second nature.
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Character Forms Through Plasticity

  • Character is formed by plasticity, a quality that makes us yield to repeated influences and then hold those shapes.
  • John Ortberg uses paper folds, clothing, and locks to show how repeated actions create durable neural and behavioral patterns.
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Neurons Wire Habits Into Identity

  • Habits arise because neurons that fire together wire together, making complex skills automatic over time.
  • Ortberg connects Hebb's law to everyday skills like walking, talking, reading, and driving to show how habit frees attention.
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Habits Define Who You Are

  • Your character is essentially the sum of your habits, which operate below conscious will and 'eat willpower for breakfast.'
  • Ortberg argues habit cultivation is central to personhood because habits outsource actions to the body.
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