
ManTalks Podcast Owen Marcus - What Emotional Intelligence Is, And Why Men Need It
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Apr 4, 2022 Owen Marcus, co-founder of EVRYMAN and somatic psychotherapist who has led men’s groups for decades, discusses somatic practices and emotional intelligence. He describes how stress and emotion get held in the body. He explains simple tools like ROC (Relax, Open, Connect), co-regulation, and how creating safe, structured spaces helps men access feelings.
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How Rolfing Reset Owen's Life
- Owen Marcus discovered somatic work after Rolfing transformed his chronic tension, making him an inch taller and 20 pounds lighter.
- That physical release launched a 45-year path into rolfing, somatic psychotherapy, and men's work leading to Everyman.
The Body Stores Trauma In Fascia
- Fascia is called the organ of stress and chronic tension becomes stored as scar-like tissue in the body.
- Owen gave an example of a Vietnam veteran whose traumatic release in therapy healed a chronic hip problem the following week.
EI Is Feeling Not Explaining
- Emotional intelligence is primarily connection to emotional experience, not cognitive explanation.
- Owen realized explaining emotions to his partner felt intellectual, so he had to learn to drop into felt experience to actually connect.
