The Leading Edge in Emotionally Focused Therapy 138. Stage 2 Series: “Social Trauma in Stage 2: Inviting Every Part of Our Clients into the Room”
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Apr 27, 2026 A conversation about how culture, oppression, and identity-based harms show up during deep Stage 2 EFT work. They introduce social trauma and social betrayal and discuss how internalized messages shape negative self-models. Practical broaching strategies and the CARE model are highlighted to help therapists invite all parts of a client’s identity into therapy. Clinical examples illustrate hidden wounds therapists may encounter.
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Social Trauma Shapes Negative Models Of Self
- Social trauma shapes negative models of self and attachment fears beyond individual events.
- James Hawkins ties social betrayal and internalized racism to lifelong messages that make people feel unlovable and guarded.
How Size Shaped James Hawkins Practical Self Protection
- James Hawkins shared being a larger-size male and how social reactions changed his behavior like controlling voice volume and posture.
- A colleague reacted emotionally, saying hearing that framed his experience made him feel seen.
Broach Context Early And Use The CARE Model
- Broach cultural/contextual factors early but remain open that clients may not yet be aware or safe to share them.
- Use the CARE model's Context step to intentionally invite identity and lived-experience into therapy.