LOVERS by shan Am I Still Who You Want? Are You Becoming Who I Need? A Relationship Check-In + Free Guide ft Jared Brady
Sep 10, 2025
In this conversation, musician Jared Brady, Shan Boodram's husband, candidly explores the intricacies of love and vulnerability. They tackle the tough questions about their relationship, discussing intimacy and the need for regular check-ins to stay aligned. With a focus on balancing work and family life, they emphasize how couples can navigate change together. Additionally, they introduce a free Relationship Check-In Guide, making their insights accessible for all couples looking to enhance their communication and connection.
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Pause Work Conflicts With A Walk
- When work conflicts trigger romantic sensitivities, pause and take a walk or brief break to reset before returning to tasks.
- Use short rituals or physical space to prevent arguments from stagnating both roles.
Schedule To Protect Individual And Parenting Selves
- Co-parenting often requires adapting personal identity; parents alternate between 'person' and 'parent' roles.
- Scheduling family, individual, and parent–child time clarifies when each self can show up fully.
Use Bedtime Rituals To Reconnect
- Prioritize consistent bedtime and evening rituals to create rest and reconnection after busy days.
- Protecting evening routines helps both partners feel secure and present for each other.