Dear Clare

I wonder if you could shed some light on the area of indecisiveness. I have been in a relationship for around 18 months and for about the last 6 months am unsure whether to continue with it or not. I seem to change my mind on this constantly. It’s a push pull feeling and I watch my mind go back and forward with the dilemma. I am going around in circles and I feel like I am 50/50 and unable to decide. It feels quite unfair on my partner as he can sense me pulling away or having cold feet about our relationship and then other times I am open and loving - understandably it’s confusing and difficult for him to be in a relationship with someone who’s not sure about him. I’d be really grateful if you could speak to what’s really going on here around being stuck with indecision.

Thank you Clare

Indecision : listener question