
Life Matters - Full program podcast Why teens are trying therapy via Fortnite and should you get a sleep divorce?
Mar 11, 2026
Patrick Stokes, philosopher exploring ethics and privacy; Dr Moira Junger, sleep psychologist and Sleep Health Foundation CEO; Dr Zach Seidler, clinical psychologist focused on young men and gaming engagement; Mike Keady, counsellor delivering therapy inside Fortnite and Minecraft. They discuss gaming as a therapy platform, navigating online risks and professionalism, couples choosing to sleep apart, practical tips, and ethical questions around age verification and sexual privacy.
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Video Game Therapy Builds Rapport Where Talk Fails
- Video game therapy uses games like Fortnite and Minecraft as settings to build rapport with young people who won't engage in a traditional therapist's chair.
- Mike Keady began this digital spin on play therapy in 2020 to reach isolated rural youth and those uncomfortable with face-to-face talk therapy.
Nerd Therapist Origin Story
- Mike Keady branded himself the Nerd Therapist to explain gaming, anime and sci‑fi topics to clinicians and initially used it as a pseudonym for six weeks.
- He worried about appearing unprofessional until colleagues worldwide validated the approach.
Meet Young Men In Their Social Spaces
- Engaging young men requires meeting them in the social spaces they already use, not forcing traditional therapy formats.
- Dr Zach Seidler argues play, art or equine therapies are established analogues and gaming should be treated similarly.

