Unlocking Us with Brené Brown

Brené with Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman on The Love Prescription, Part 2 of 3

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Oct 5, 2022
Dr. John and Dr. Julie Gottman discuss the importance of understanding deeper meanings in relationships. They explore conflict resolution, expressions of love, physical touch, and vulnerability in relationships. The podcast delves into the key elements of great love lives and the impact of communication and gratitude on nurturing intimacy.
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ANECDOTE

Cabin Conflict Reveals Deep Roots

  • Julie and John fought for years over a cabin until deeper personal histories were revealed and understood.
  • They compromised after sharing childhood stories that explained why the cabin mattered to each of them.
INSIGHT

To Know Someone, Ask Big Questions

  • Daily logistics conversations don't reveal partners' inner maps or evolving identities.
  • Big open questions invite discovery of values, history, and shifting priorities.
ADVICE

Ask What's On Their Mind And Heart

  • Ask your partner daily: “What's on your mind and heart today?” to reconnect beyond logistics.
  • Use that ten-minute practice to rebuild the bridge between you and your partner.
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