
LessWrong (30+ Karma) “Contra Nina Panickssery on advice for children” by Sean Herrington
Apr 7, 2026
A critique of advice for very smart children that warns against adopting an adversarial stance toward others. Short takes on when to follow the crowd and when to question it. Discussion of realistic limits, tailoring common advice to ability, and avoiding predictable mistakes. Emphasis on respectful debate, protecting your future self, and staying humble about being right sometimes and wrong other times.
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Don’t Reject Crowd Wisdom Without Reason
- Following the crowd is often a good heuristic for kids because social learning and safety have strong evolutionary advantages.
- Sean Herrington argues smart children should learn why peers act a certain way and only reject crowd behavior when it's clearly dumb.
Keep An Open Mind About Being Wrong
- Beware confident dismissal of others’ beliefs; the world is confusing and you can be confused too.
- Herrington recommends keeping an open mind, noticing where you're confused, and reducing that confusion rather than assuming others are wrong.
Try Things Before Accepting Limits
- Try everything and avoid adopting self-imposed limits based on perceived genetics or early impressions.
- Sean recounts learning to juggle and later play ice hockey despite lacking depth perception as evidence to practice rather than pre‑decide limits.
