Being Human with Steve Cuss

Emotional Load and Listening Postures: Finding Balance in Our Conversations with Steve Cuss and Clarissa Moll

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Feb 2, 2026
Clarissa Moll, writer and podcaster who probes culture and leadership, joins the conversation. They unpack power dynamics, generational divides, and identity struggles. They explore listening postures, emotional safety, and practices for more inclusive leadership. Biblical examples and practical tactics for lowering conversational stakes are also discussed.
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ADVICE

Name Communication Styles First

  • Ask which communication style someone uses before judging their behavior.
  • Use low-stakes conversations to learn rather than to correct or shame.
INSIGHT

Listen To Learn, Not To Win

  • Notice your listening posture: learn, fix, defend, or hijack.
  • Listening to learn lowers reactivity and opens better conversations.
ADVICE

Make Fixing A Deliberate Choice

  • Pause and ask God to guide whether to fix, defend, or stay curious.
  • Treat fixing as a deliberate choice, not an automatic reaction.
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